Skin in the game

"The phrase 'skin in the game' means that you do not pay attention to what people say, only to what they do, and to how much of their necks they are putting on the line. This willingness to accept one's own risks is an essential attribute of people in all walks of life . . . challenges long-held beliefs about those who control our military, finances, religions, and so much more-- and shows how 'skin in the game' applies to all aspects of our lives"--OCLC.