A reflection on what it is to be a Muslim in America today. It is also the story of many journeys: from Pakistan to the United States in an arranged marriage that becomes a love match lasting forty years; from secular Muslim in an Islamic society to devout Muslim in a society ignorant of Islam, and from liberal to conservative to American Muslim; from master's candidate to bride and mother; and from an immigrant intending to stay only two years to an American citizen, business executive, grandmother, and tireless advocate for interfaith understanding. The author undercuts stereotypes and offers the refreshing view of an American life through Muslim eyes. She recounts an immigrant's daily struggles balancing assimilation with preserving heritage, overcoming religious barriers from within and distortions of Islam from without, and confronting issues of raising her children as Muslims--while they lobby for a Christmas tree.